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What I want for Tucker

I have all these ideas that I want for Tucker, for instance I want him to really try in school and not just mess around and memorize everything like I did. I want for him to be happy but I have this crazy idea in my head of what makes someone happy, so I have this whole list of things I want for him, mostly a list of things if I could go back that I would basically want for myself. Isn't that what parents do anyways, they learn from what they've been through growing up and say "I never did such and such so I want my kid to do such and such"? That's what I think anyway so here it goes the list of what I want for Tucker:
I want Tucker to be curious about the world
I don't want him to watch those useless children's cartoons that teach him nothing
I want him to explore and learn about the earth
I want him to like something that is real, such as the planet, learn about animals, be interested in science, not silly cartoons
I want him to read, I want him to read so many books that he wants to live at the library
I want him to love being outdoors and love to see new things
I want him to love the ocean and not be afraid of water
I want him to want to learn about all the wonders of the world
I want him to find friends that he can trust and hold on to those friends forever
I want him to laugh, laugh at everything that amuses him and not take himself too seriously
I want him to feel loved every time he looks at his dad and me
I want him to feel trust and security
I want him to love too
There are so many more things I want for Tucker but I will keep the list short, I know he will have his own personality and his own interest but above all I hope he's happy and knows how much he is loved.
-B

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