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Date Night

Last night (Sunday night) was date night for Josh and me. It was the first time we had seen a movie since I was maybe 6 months pregnant. Something that we used to do all the time, anytime, it had taken us 7 months to do. I had worked all day (sidenote: I wake up at 3:30am to get ready for work to be there by 4:30 am...I have heard this is a bit crazy) and was very tired and missed my baby, but we forged on and went anyway. We drove the 45 minutes to Corbin to see a two and a half hour movie (Gone Girl, I highly recommend it!) so by the time we got out it was around 7 pm. From lack of seeing my baby and being so hungry I was shaking, I was ready to grab something fast and go home. The last 30 minutes of the movie I was trying to come up with a way to tell Josh this. We had both wanted a steak dinner and just some time to ingest food at a normal speed (unlike "the baby is going to cry" speed) so I didn't know how he'd feel about changing plans . So while I was waiting for him to get out of the restroom, I mustered up the courage and blurted it out. Thank God his reaction was "I was going to ask if you wanted Taco Bell" I was so happy and hungry (a taco bell was not close) that we just hit the McDonalds drive thru and headed home. I ended up putting my head on his arm and falling asleep the last half of the trip home, but that in my opinion was a successful date night! Nothing fancy but we got to spend some time as a couple again and that is just what we needed! We arrived at our family's hosue and Tuck was awake so we picked him up and headed back down the hill (code for home) and put him to sleep togheter. Win.

-B

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